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How I trained my young cousin to win at life

Welcome back scholars, my young cousin turned 18 on March 27th and is taking a gap year off to further develop and heading off to the illustrious Columbia University in New York City. I paved the way for this decision. My young cousin, Hilton D. Farrakhan has plenty of volunteering experience, internships, started a science club, has an account with Barclays, spoke at local events, 4 star 6'5 185 wrestler in Minnesota and 3 star tight end. He narrowed his offers academically and athletically to a top 10.

- Ball State
- U of Chicago
- Northwestern
- Michigan
- Vanderbilt
- CalTech
- Howard
- Georgetown
- Harvard
- Columbia
 
That's the preface. I'm glad this young man lived with me and let me mentor him & he learned like the phenomenal student. 

- Taking him to events
I groomed him for success with the elitist because I have the Freemason Mentality. Not a Freemason but I think like one. I went/go to the Petroleum Club, Penn Club, American Heart Association charity events, Vanderbilt Alumni Events, Omega Psi Phi conferences, the Mar-a-Logo Club, the Hampton Social, the President's Lodge, the Chairman's Circle, Roc Nation Meeting, Biltmore Wine Club, Dream Nightclub, Governor's Club, VP's House, International conferences to places like London, Moscow, Bordeaux and Montreal, the Baccarat Brunch, Roc Nation Venues, Fraternal Order of Police Luncheon, the Debutante Ball, the Brooklyn Bowl, the Masquerade Ball, Coachella, Fight After Party, MGM casinos, Greektown, Madison Square Garden, 5th Avenue, Campus Martius, Rodeo Drive and the Gold Coast/Magnificent Mile. Must get initated young. I initated myself and these are events, he will all be apart of fully by age 21. 

- Geographic Profitability
I live nowhere from New York and eventually will live in NYC & I got him to New York State by showing him the brightside of life. It's multiple neighborhoods I pinpointed him out to and that he has interest in.
- Long Island City, Queens, New York City, New York
- Yonkers, New York 
- Greenwich Village, Manhattan, New York City, New York
- Hell's Kitchen, Manhattan, New York City, New York
- Times Square, Manhattan, New York City, New York
- Plainview, Long Island, New York
- Forest Hills, Queens, New York City, New York
- Brooklyn Heights, Brooklyn, New York City, New York
- Albany, New York

My influence is heavy and will lead him to major success because my top 5 destinations as a free agent man are to non-Southern metropolises such as NYC, Chicago, Los Angeles, Detroit and Scottsdale. His were Boston, Philadelphia, San Francisco, NYC & Columbus. If you're a young pro who got the cutthroat mentality like me, going up North is essential but I know most young men have neutered personalities so I recommend a big fish, small pond field like the South.

- Dual Enrollment
If you're about your academics & grades and that's a constant, this is for you! Raising and keeping your GPA high is essential all THREE OR FOUR YEARS! He was in dual enrollment with the University of Minnesota to earn HS & College credits rather than just HS credits and start from scratch + it's extra knowledge & a morale boost as it gives the admissions staff a green light in the department of responsibility and not only that, it raises his social intelligence by getting a taste early especially before a gap year.

- Valedictorian
From freshman year & on, one goal was set. VALEDICTORIAN. Patrick Henry said "Liberty or Death!", I said "1st or failure!" He achieved that because he was naturally smart + I put it in him to be a killer competitor. Stay grounded and stay competing. Murder them books. Murder them statistics. Murder that bank account.

- Study Tactics
The average young man aims for putting in 25-30 hours at a damn fast food restaurant. I put out a schedule for Hilton to study 35 hours of study a week. 5 hours a day daily. 4:30am-6:30am & 3:45pm-6:45pm on weekdays and 2am to 7am on weekends. It's 5 important pieces of academic curriculum we study:
- Mathematics
- Economics 
- English/French
- History/Geography
- Engineering
5 secondary subjects as well:
- Philosophy
- Biology
- Theology & Divinity
- Intellectual Design
- Law

We've studied some of the best literature such as:
- Thurgood Marshall: American Revolutionary by Juan Williams
- The Art of War by Sun Tzu
- Jill by Phillip Larkin
- Journalism & New Media by John V. Pavlik
- How to Eat to Live by Elijah Muhammad
- Covering Violence by William E. Cotè

Also hiring tutors and fellow multilingual speakers is something else that was done. It takes a village, also met some good people that are Columbia Alum to also mentor & drop any extra words of knowledge and wisdom.

- Business Credit
Getting business credit is essential, he's going to be getting into the Medical Courier and Post-Operation service. Transportation, Medical and Hospitality are very lucrative especially considering I have a warehouse for medical supplies. Got him a LLC and he's been an authorized user on my credit card & I consistently pay along with him having property on his name. Got him a line of credit, until he's 20. I have his spending strict though, 75% assets and 25% liabilities. We're in the business of making money. Liabilities can be spent once those assets pay dividends. You build multiple streams of passive income first before going towards the glam. You can be luxurious nonetheless but assets come first, it's only 1 way and that's up. 

- Volunteering
Doing good deeds and doing it in the name of honor, valor and honesty goes a long way. Volunteering locally builds a positive reputation and that is essential for a young man. Hilton volunteered at places that match his moral and political compass. Places to raise awareness against racism, places to feed the poor, education, traditional values, heal the sick, places that fight against COVID-vaccine, places that are Pro-Life & most importantly, places that are Pro-American & Pro-God.

- Medical Internship 
After hearing about his goals to become a surgeon, it was only essential to get internship opportunities in the medical field. It puts you head and shoulders above your peers.

- Working at a mall
He's in the opulent class but still needs to know the shopping industry as he will be a Renaissance man. As a fellow young man, I know how it works at the mall. It gets you amongst others of your generation & it enhances image.

- Gap Year
Getting a gap year is something I recommend to students after a 12 year continuous cycle which will lead to a burnout. College is the big leagues. It's like the regular season and playoffs. Be great in the regular season but playoffs demand perfection. Gap Year is like training not rest. During gap year, you need to aim for 10 important things.
- Economic development and Financial Growth
- Physical and Athletic Development
- Intellectual and Academic Development
- Religious Development
- Skill Acquistion
- Travelling
- Social Development

- Working for my Taxi Business
I own a private Taxi company throughout NYC, Albany, Syracuse, New Brunswick, Trenton, Camden, DC, East Rutherford, the Hamptons, Philly, Boston & Hartford. It gives a travel experience and cultural experience. All American novelties and not only that, it's foreigner paradise. Not 3rd world mentality but the East Coast in general is hardcore and cutthroat. Introverts, nice guys, good guys and humble people come here and die. He learns to harden and expand his mentality which wins especially as a young, Northern, black man.

- Combat Sports
We're in the business of masculinity. He was 100-7 in high school and I wasn't impressed as I was 161-3 throughout high school and 202-0 throughout as an amateur. A combined record of 363-3. Wrestling isn't lucrative unless it's staged and he had no interest in WWE/TNA/ROH/NJPW/AEW so I trained him in a better discipline, MMA. He transitioned from folkstyle and freestyle to a 8-art arsenal:
- Greco-Roman Wrestling
- Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu
- Combat Sambo
- Muay Thai 
- Taekwondo
- Boxer (Out-Boxer style)
- MCMAP
- Pankration


It's a perfect blend of grappling, speed, IQ, strength, technique, defense and power. I'm all for a cerebral and physical craft. Harden the body, sharpen the mind. He has interest in MMA, for his body and experience. This is the best layout to blend.

- Cerebral Arts
I do this often and I mentor him frequently on these disciplines. Being intelligent beats all! The first rule of war is mindful thought. Just like Mixed Martial Arts, I have Mixed Cerebral Arts. Here's the 10 arts I teach to him & he gets advised in. 
- Foreign Language
- Architecture
- Political Science
- Artificial Intelligence
- Combinatorical Mathematics
- Poetry
- Quantitative Reasoning
- Biology
- Organic Chemistry
- Neuroscience

- Police Academy
Police Academy teaches how to solve cases, how to build durability mentally and physically, traffic control, enforcement and self defense. It takes values of valor to pull it off and it makes a man & that's what we need more of.

- Alpha Phi Alpha
Being a fraternal brother is essential, it's crucial to my thought complex. He's being taught principle by Alpha Phi Alpha alumni & even handed a fraternal ring. His stock is rising.He'll be pledging and joining the ritual of honor and code & great Alphas like Thurgood Marshall have before. Initiating him for the real world.

- Construction
The Architects, Designers & Master Masons are men of marvel and that's why I made the Brick Mason Strategy. Every successful person knows to win, you must go up the degrees, hierarchy or whatever you want to call it. Those building blocks are built on skill, education, sacrifice, experience and accomplishments. As a man, building that strength is key. It gives you strength, insight and problem solving skills to work as a team & build. 

- Hunting
Hunting for food, fun & fashion are a manly skill that should be on autopilot. In Midwest, Mountain West & Great Plains states, hunting whitetail deer, elk, gophers, wolverines, moose is essential 4 life and I do it on my property so only essential to teach Hilton the art of hunting & how something like a 1895 Marlin Trapper, Super Blackhawk, Barrett M82 or Excalibur Micro Suppressor.

- Learning Skills
Learning blue collar skills is essential but that's not the point right now (It'll be mentioned later). 
These are just a few skills I've mastered and professionally certified in, all of this has been taught to Hilton. Corporate skills run the globe, be groomed to be the head honcho that way you don't need to waste your youth in the name of working up the ladder. That's years you'll never get back in the name of hard work instead of using smart work. Leverage time, don't burn it. He's 18 so he can afford to be a student of the game but not too long.

- Foreign Language/Travelling
Despite being American, we have the immigrant mentality. With the addition of BRICS & the turmoil of America, the Farrakhan's stay up with the current event. We stay up with culture and political relations, knowing multiple languages is important. We respect America but we're not loyal to it. Knowing the culture is important, it's how you retain successful. Travelling abroad just means different residency, same success. Wealthy in America, wealthy in Russia, Israel, Saudi, Ghana etc.

- Wardrobe
A fun yet crucial topic. Maturing young is essential. Hygiene and wardrobe go hand and hand. Having the following for starters is a must:
- 15 dress shirts
- 15 blazers
- 15 ties
- 15 pair of no show socks
- 15 dress pants
- 10 watches
- 10 fragrances
- 10 rings
- 10 vests
- 10 leather jackets
- 10 turtlenecks
- 10 bow-ties
- 10 glasses
- 5 shoes
- 5 hats
- 5 belts
- 5 boots
- 5 furcoats
- 5 scarfs

Shoes he earned:
- Double Monk Strap
- Loafers
- Suede Driver
- Oxford 
- Sneaker
Boots he earned:
- Brogue
- Timberland Hiking
- Chelsea
- Diplomat
- Moc Toe
Fragrances he earned:
- Azzaro Wild Mint
- Le Labo Tubereuse 40
- Louis Vuitton Nuit De Feu
- Yves Saint Laurent M7 Oud Absolu
- Tous 1920
- Blackcliff Mr. Pink
- Zaharoff Leather Tabac
- Bond. No 9 Chez Bond
- Brioni Eclat
- Tom Ford Beau De Jour

- Weight Lifting
Building muscle mass is important especially for the tall young man. In a society where masculinity is dying, having a body like a Bobby Lashley, JJ Watt, Rob Gronkowski etc. should be a must. Train to get stronger and more durable.


- Tutoring/Coaching
Despite being very educated, there's not enough education + on graduation day, it's many people who graduate. Your expertise separates you. College is the best time to get a tutor and best to get a coach to improve academically and athletically. This is when Law 15 of the 48 Laws comes in more than ever. Crush your enemy totally.

- Biker Club
Learning how to patrol, ride a bike, brawl and run businesses is one aspect of MC's. Being your own militia in a system of tyranny is a must.

- Coding
We've been in the technology era for the last 15-20 years. Coding is lucrative. Lucrative opportunity creates money. Money creates authority. 

- Private School
The culture of private school is correct. You learn more and it's a bigger competitive pool. That's why Private and Montessori students defeat Public school students. Recruits look at academic and athletic success from private school much quicker than they do for public. This is blue chip living.

- Picking out a wife/K-Selection
18 onto death, you're a man. Men pick wives. This is why I support Divine 9, it puts you in a pool of elite women to select rather than doing dumb shit like being a pickup artist. K-Selective style is one of the respectable person. Get married, have a reasonable amount of children and raise them up rather having kids all over the place, that's breeding. Breeding is for the genetically recessive.

- Guns and Butter
Knowing as a young man to separate your guns from butter is a must-learn attribute. The term guns and butter has been linked throughout history to the challenges of war and the negotiations on defense spending. Its uses have varied from guns and butter, guns vs. butter, and guns or butter. Many trace the coining of the phrase to the beginning of World War I and the protesting resignation of Secretary of State William Bryan. Bryan was strongly opposed to the high expense and risks of nitrates for gun powder. His resignation was followed by the National Defense Act of 1916 which sought to help identify a nitrate production site in Alabama which would serve the national defense efforts in war time and chemical fertilization otherwise.

- Buyer's Power/Profitable Problem Solving
The way to expand money is to constantly purchase and own. That's how the bank wins. Ownership and necessities still exist so people must put their dollars in to gain possession or consumption of a product. COVID made many multi-millionaires by multi, I mean 100M and up, I'm one of those guys.

- Credit
Having Hilton as an authorized user on multiple lines of my credit. 847 score and securing properties with multiple lines of equity connected to them include my dispensary & warehouse which is a S-Corp and he has 15% share in boosts his credit resumé as is his credit will stay around 835-850 for a long time.

- MARSOC training
Tactical training is needed. Swimming, fighting and shooting training is a gemstone of manhood. It builds a gameplan, character and self-defense. To learn from the Marine Raiders (which I was), women build the home and we protect it! This is nation building! This also correlates with hunting.

- Taxes
Learning taxes, write offs, tax brackets and how to leverage taxes by social class is important. 

- Mentorship
With these skills, learn from mentors to mentor and pay your dues & profit after pay.

- HVAC
Heating, Ventilation & Air Conditioner is impactful to the home system. Fixing it, improving it and adding things like an Atomizer Diffuser in it saves money & makes the house just superior quality.

- Cooking 
To me, it's 12 cuisines to master in cooking to be a good cook.
- Jamaican cuisins
- Alkaline cuisine
- Kosher cuisine
- Polish cuisine
- Greek cuisine
- Japanese cuisine
- Midwestern American cuisine
- Italian cuisine
- Creole cuisine
- Cajun cuisine
- Hawaiian cuisine
- Portuguese cuisine

Avoid cooking with seed oils and consuming pork. This all correlates to good cooking.

- Mechanics
Fixing cars and working with mechanics at workshops was something Hilton has done and did with pride. Using his Midwestern heritage to fix cars and fixed over 125 cars and I rewarded him with 2 cars for it. A 2018 Lincoln MKZ Black Label and 2022 Alfa Romeo Stelvio for his great works.

- Architecture
Design fuels the world. Architecture is not just real estate but the blueprint of the universe.

- Law
Learning the Constitution, Black's Law, Dean's Law and using political references like the Moynihan Report is excellence personified. Knowing the Law of the Land gets you much further in this society.

- Socialization and sports
Sports is a masculine way of communication. Getting a game of pickup basketball, flag football, golf or weekend ball is vintage masculine and being a competitor in fellowship is the point. Knowing how to throw a palmball, fastball, vulcanchange etc. around the 80-102 MPH range while hitting a 400 foot homer is a hidden gem. Mastering the mid-range, post-game, route running, throwing, hitting adds to your arsenal. It's a competitive war rather than a fun meet and greet plus you never know who's watching, a fun game could get you to a professional field.


Thank you to Hilton and thank you for watching!

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