Originally produced: September 30th, 2022
In the last 3 generations of the Millenials, Gen Z & Gen "Alpha" which I put in quotations for great reason. It has become taboo to speak on morals but damnit this is Shabazz Farrakhan University by OnyxMedia. We're no holds barred! Class vs. Trash has became a series that I look to become at least 17 parts. Might go over and be permanent.
As a wealthy, accomplished, educated, independent American of Trinidadian & West African descent and French Creole Heritage, marriage is my culture. Marriage between man & woman is the greatest accomplishment both genders can have due to it building a better family, cutting generational curses in black society and building wealth. Marriage is the flagship to wealth and social dominance in the world especially corporate America. Block out the Anti-Marriage agenda that modern degenerate society stands on. Ignore the myth that married men are unconscious sexless cucks, false they were already weak. You still can have a traditional or red pilled mentality in marriage. You have to find attributes in women outside of sex. Sex is important but it's much more important attributes. Search for the character of a woman. As I always say, this is the attribute hierarchy:
- Hygiene
- Faith
- Looks
- Personality
- Politics
- Education
The Sexy 6 attributes of being a lady, everything else is 2nd tier. You need these 6. You need a clean woman, a smart woman, a cooperative woman, a Christ based woman, a conservative woman, a woman of character & a beautiful woman (only if you're above average in looks)
Now, let's speak on a good looking man and how to stand out looks wise.
- Low Fat but not a lightweight or skinny man
- Learn to defend yourself
- Be honest, be impatient
- Be direct
- Have a pack of men with you as great as you & conduct yourself as if you're the top guy
- Have evidence of your credentials on you
- Have a short term girlfriend for the fall & summer for 2 years
- Talk to women more than men to get your wet feet in the social construct of dating
- Grow out some hair, have it healthy, conditioned and clean
- Clean your skin
- Clean the damn ears
- Have your skin coloring regulated. No discoloration, no suntans.
- Improve your mental health
- Walk like a runway model
- Wear clothes that are adjusted perfectly to your body shape which is lean muscular.
- Read more to build knowledge
- Travel to build experience
- Clean your teeth
- Fix your nails and get mani's & pedi's often
- Buff your lips
- Grow a beard & fade your beard
- Take ZMA, Maca Root, Milk Thisle and L-Carnitine
- Workout and shower immediately
- Wear only high quality
- Start mewing
- Dress like a grown ass man
Don't be an abuser nor a simp and start dating when you have at least $65k and start courting at $100k. She needs to be a high achiever as well. Don't put your heart into her if you haven't already put your dick & brain in her. Not a pro fornication guy in her but don't get emotional when you're in the dug out, the goal is to at least get a base. By communication & chemistry in relationship, here's the phases:
Dug Out - Talking Stage
2 weeks
Batting at base - Dating
3 weeks
Swinging - Meet each other's parents
4 weeks/1 month
1st base - Going to events together
5 weeks
2nd base - Sex
6 weeks
3rd base - Gifts
8 weeks
Inside the park home run - Courting
28 weeks
Home run - Engagement
40 weeks
2 run home run - Travelling
42 weeks
3 run home run - Wedding planning, prenups, life insurance, relocation, thinking about kids, wills/trust & a family bank account.
52 weeks/1 year
Grand Slam - Marriage, honeymoon and having your first kid
56-104 weeks
As an exec in Corporate and Board Principal in Law, the top 100 of their respective state. 87 out of 100 are married, 12 were divorced and 1 was engaged so all 100 had experience in marriage. The highest value men know the important of marriage because that's how you build the structure of a dynasty.
Now let's go over verses regarding marriage:
Hebrews 13:4 - Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.
John 14:27 - Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.
2 Corinthians 6:14 - Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?
Colossians 3:18-19 - Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them.
Proverbs 31:10 - An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels.
Here's my favorite one:
1 Corinthians 7:3 - The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband... Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
I realize it's hard, it took 74 times to find that traditional woman.
Next, Gender Roles are important. Wives are important to the peace of the house.
She's the cook, the maid, the mother, the first lady and the secretary.
You're the provider, breadwinner, protector, father and the Presidential man.
Hence why I didn't copy HVM from Kevin Samuels and instead I created presidential because presidents other than Joe Biden have high respect, veneration and reverance. The president is usually a competent, unapologetic, aggressive man that leads with precision. Look at Zelenskyy from Ukraine, a phenomenal man. A BASED man. A president has the requirements of a first lady which requires marriage & they have children who have an advantage over an entire nation due to their EQ & status. That's the life! Being a presidential man with a first lady. Your kids have the option of the best tutors & best life. Still discipline to continue the legacy. Your kids come out out of HS as a Valedictorian, Rhode's Scholar and now have the option of going to your prestigious institutions like Vanderbilt, Duke, Michigan, Ohio State, Michigan State, Villanova, University of Chicago, Harvard, NYU, Dartmouth, Yale, UCLA or have the options to study abroad like UOIT, McGill or Oxford. Regardless, they're above the lower tier colleges like Howard, LSU, Alabama, Wayne State, Ole Miss, South Carolina, New Mexico State etc. IQ is important but doesn't beat EQ. Then you get started as an entrepreneur, board member or investor in the top industries in America. Remember this quote:
" You go to college for notoriety and networking, you travel and speak to elitists for EQ growth and intern & read at the library for academics." - Shabazz Farrakhan
It was a racist yet accurate quote that went
" To hide something from a nigga, put it in a book" - some white prick
I seen an interview with Kobe Bryant about why he didn't go to college, he said a simple fact.
" The same books at the college are at the library"
True, as I tell my students who are still in HS. Build skills, go freelance and study & then acquire skills and finish it off with a degree. Study majors, consult with experts & record your knowledge. Make publications and presentations to promote your education & profit heavily. Get in politics in your area as well.
Have a skill, trade and degree. Now how do you keep this here after you start pushing daisies? You need a posthumous legacy of greatness. How is that done? THROUGH MARRIAGE.
Imagine if our ancestors wanted sexual liberation, selfish and was anti marriage? None of us would be here.
As a man you need to be married by 25 at the latest. 19-20 at the earliest. That's why Jewish people will forever run this shit, they have bar mitzvahs to celebrate being 13, the prelude of being a man. I'm an Israelite man so I celebrate it for the young men. That's culture of excellence! Then your kids to continue this legacy by marrying into their heritage & lineage. Therefore, you stay your background. I'm Trini-Creole and my wife is Afro-Creole. That's how you keep your legacy!
Married families are healthier, more successful, more intelligent, godly, live longer, have more political leverage & have better offspring.
Reject modernity, embrace tradition!