Not going to be written as a typical SFU post. This is more of a conversation point of view.
First things first, perfect woman. My top attributes i pursue are hygiene, personality, intellect, faith and beauty. I'm from Vanderbilt University and live in an upper echelon community, therefore my lady is also rich and must be because we need that common ground financially. Let's say we first meet at North Italia, Green Hills or at a Divine 9 fraternity because I'm a member of Omega Psi Phi. I date her, exclusive dates only. Yacht party, movie theater, art galleries, mall, movie premiere, go to a hockey game, a vineyard etc. I propose to her after a year of being my GF, marry her 3 weeks later and sign a prenup. We have 7 different banking accounts, 3 for her (Corporate, business and personal), 3 for me (Corporate, Business and Personal) & a family account, next thing is I hold up at least $4M and purchase assets with that. REITS, property, stocks, commodities and businesses so next thing I do is hold events with her at luxury hotels like Ritz Carlton and Omni. I do that to build my image amongst the top earners to compete with non black successful men. She does the same, she's a debutante woman competing with non black women because you earn your ego. You earn being a king and queen, you aren't born one. 1 year in marriage and 2 years after first meeting her, I have my first kid. Let's say it's a son, his name will obviously be Shabazz Farrakhan Jr. or Shabazz the II. I establish a trust fund, make him an authorized user of the family's credit cards so therefore when he's 18, he has a perfect credit score of 850. Obviously as a black son, he'd be taught politics and religion. I'm christ based and so would my wife be so the Bible is #1. He would learn Thomas Sowell, Thomas Sankara, Louis Farrakhan, Malcolm X, Jesus Christ who's the OG Black leader, Kwame Ture, Kevin Samuels but I'd also teach him great minds of other cultures like Ben Shapiro, William Shakespeare, Sun Tzu. He'd obviously know more than 1 language because me and my wife do. I'm a scholar in all cultures so knowing everything and everybody is crucial. Next, socialization. I'm an extrovert, I can socialize with anyone regardless of age, gender or race. I require the same because to build and compete, your competition and your business allies won't look like you for the most part. Most of my colleagues are Asian and White men and they're so socially dominant because they know how to decipher the world. I'd teach him don't be "real", know your worth and learn from all cultures and build your own for your own off of that knowledge. It's not selling out, it's buying in. If you know you have to pull some benedict shit to be #1, do it. Buy in your spot at the table with Rob F Smith and Elon Musk. Power is amoral, Loyalty is bullshit! Have character but don't have too much virtue. Next, philanthropy. Philanthropy to the less fortunate builds a positive reputation. Do you think Elon Musk cares about the homeless? No. He does it for publicity. All publicity is good publicity. Next, legacy. I'd have him travel to the Caribbean and Africa to find a future wife. I want my bloodline black! Ik black women have had beef with me big time but even if his mother is a mixed black woman. I'm black, she's mixed. That's a black child by majority over minority. I still want him to do get a black girl because he might get more respect than I get. Don't emulate me. He'd have to know martial arts and have military training, I'm a rough dude. Ain't no way my son would be a flower boy with no muscle no grit. You ain't rich, me& Mrs. Farrakhan are. Go out there and start picking some fucking stone and shoveling that snow young man. Earning is much better than receiving. That's why most rich kids are shit because they have a silver spoon. That's not my philosophy to be soft.
I want him to say "Dad, can I get a bugatti for my sweet 16?" Man I'd laugh my ass off. I'm only buying bugatti's if people getting accepted to Harvard, Vanderbilt, Michigan, UPenn, Dartmouth etc. like I did. Ain't no fucking way, a boy who was the underdog and came from the mud dirt poor grime of Detroit where it was days where I had 0 power became great but you up here an entitled male? Shit you're not even a man, want a bugatti. Go earn it. Go start a private equity company, go start your own network, go to college, go become a lawyer etc and you have it. I can't stand an embarrassment. I'm not losing this work ethic, the day imma stop working is the day I'm dead. No such thing as take it easy. Hell no! Mfs gonna have to study like me, get a job, start a business, have a tutor, have an athletic coach and aim for an internship from ages 13 and on. Like in life, one thing I'd never accept is anyone in 2nd place or lower. Losing ain't an option! Idc if you had 4 A's & a B. Not impressive not good enough. I want more more more. Focus on your weaknesses and conquer them. Same with my wife, I understand women keep weight postpartum but not 80+ lbs. That's why I respect thin women. She started off 135 but ended off at 145-150 after multiple kids and she's 5'10. Health is wealth. That's why I stay below 10% body fat, sometimes that pie might look so good but nah imma stick with my workout, my tomahawk steak and red potatoes and my chlorophyll. Discipline is key. Same with a daughter too, no handouts. Keep your beauty up, keep your mind sharp and develop skills & be a woman of the Bible. Like for example, I want 1 kid who's a NBA player, 1 a lawyer, 1 a equity broker, 1 a IT guru, 1 a politician & 1 a MMA fighter.